how much to give!?

I think there are people who are just born to do somethings! I have a long history of giving to much to people who don't deserve it.. it effects the people in my life that i love and who do deserve it because it takes away from them.. I realize this was wrong of me because it was not fair to me or the ones I love! I think however I have found the problem and know how to still be a giver without compromising myself or the ones I love.. I just hope the people in my life can appreciate that the things I they love about me can also be my faults and its hard to find that line.. I do believe I have figured it out tho.. I really like that I can help people and want to do it whenever possible as long as it doesn't compromise who I am..
I have recently met someone who I expect to be a great friend for many many years to come.. I care about her a great deal! I would never take time or effort away from our friendship as I would not take time or effort away from my other loved ones.. I hope you all can see that this is something that i do well and I do get some fulfillment out of it!!
Please know that I love you all... Kays, Car and Mon!!! Know that you are the most important and I love you!